Every woman's body is different, just like every child birth and baby. Even though there's a "standard/norm" that doesn't mean that should be an expectation. Having a child is more important than being concerned about when a person can go back out on the water, etc. As long as you communicate w/your wife, the 2 of you will figure it out. you may have to go w/o her and remember, she just went through 9 months of having a life growing in her, taking her nutrients, etc. and when the baby's born, and if she nurses the baby, that also takes nutrients and energy out of her. She may bounce right back, but be understanding of what she is going through and what her and your baby needs. That's the most important thing...She'll get back out there, just don't push. some women have tougher times than others and that is also normal. This is between you and your family and there is no set schedule when you have a child.
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