Yes drain it now if you didn't at the end of the season (which is generally accepted as better so you old oil, which is breaking down, isn't in the engine for a long period of time).
Yes any good quality oil will work - doesn't have to be marine grade, just stick with the weights that the manufacture suggests
If you pan has an oil drain tube, that will make it easy. Find the tube (usually zip tied to one of the hoses on the front of the engine), remove your plug (on dry land obviously) and stick the tube through the plug hole. Crawl under boat and remove cap to drain the oil.
Change your impellor too before starting the season off. If the old one looks OK, keep it as a back up. The impellor is in the raw water pump usually right on the front of the engine where the raw water hose goes into. Purchase a new one at
www.skidim.com - call them to get the right one for your boat.