fuel pump relay on pcm GT40's

This is on an old '96 nautique super sport. i'm pretty sure its gonna be the same for any SAN up to 2002
Can anybody tell me where i can find the fuel pump relay?
Its not as simple as following the wires from the low pressure pump as they disappear into the main harness.
I can only identify 2 relays on the back of the engine. they have 6 or more wires going into them and do not resemble the pic of the fuel pump relay taken from nautique parts. http://www.nautiqueparts.com/relaypc...umpandecm.aspx
this thing has a spade on one end, with 4 wires going into the other. Where does it plug in? or does it just dangle around in no-man's land off of some wires somewhere?

Isn't there only 2? There's the coil and the 2 relays right above the high pressure fuel pump on the left. They all look the same.

The coil is the far left and the relays the center and right.