URLesson on Memorial Day thread

I was checking out the Memorial Day weekend thread and I was pretty surprised. For those of you that have not read it Ill sum it up in my own words.
People are posting pick’s of partying, witch contain picks of Guy’s, Girls, Boyfriends, Girlfriends, Husbands, Wife’s, kid's ect. No big deal. Some loser a hole comes in and starts a new fake W/W account named "Urlesson". Then decides to make an example or take it to a new level by showing him in a Un acceptable way that he should not put personal information (pick’s) in a thread. Great lesson douche bag.

I’m kind of disgusted that this dumb ass was able to do what they did with out the W/W community thrashing him. Yes this thing is bound to happen but how come more people didn’t crush this type of invasion of personal information? His pick’s and posts are still up there.

IMO what make this site cool is its a community or a family. When people are out line I would hope more people would call B.S and smash it right away. IMO when this type of thing happens (people taking personal information) and re posting it to make a example not to put yourself out there it causes people to pull back and not share anything for fear of being made a example of. We all know the dangers of the Internet. THIS IS NOT MY SPACE. It should be a safe place from creeps. I’m not saying the dangers of the Internet don’t exist here but come on. IMO the min people feel like their personal space is being violated by posting here this site and what its about is in jeopardy.

Very well said Grant!

I agree with you "G"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

which thread G-money? I haven't seen anything like you're describing

Here you go J-Rod
http://www.wakeworld.com/MB/Discus/messages/1/454196.html?1180722580

Nicely stated G.

http://www.wakeworld.com/MB/Discus/messages/1/454196.html?1180722580

here ya go Jrod....

http://www.wakeworld.com/MB/Discus/messages/1/454196.html?1180722580

Memorial Buns new and improved or something...

I agree Grant...what an a-hole. I do understand that posting personal info. on the web is not always as safe as you may think, but come'on...posting a pic of your wife and daughter (who were beautiful btw) doesn't lead me to even consider finding out where they live, who they are, etc.

I think that the guy that thought that Greg was inviting trouble needs to reassess his thinking. It's crazy that he'd even take it that far.

I completely agree Grant. I too was surprised that more people did not get angered. Yes there are ways to find out info about people but unless your trying to piss people off, why do it?

The interesting point here was it wasn't a guy but a girl that did that. Read a little further down. You'll see what I mean.

Greg, sorry this happened.

Did some of his posts get deleted? The only thing I saw was him posting a picture of the guy's daughter.

I'm not on board with UR but understand the point. People are calling him (or believe it is a her) a perv while they are the same ones posting candid pictures of other people's wives, moms, and daugthers. THAT is disgusting.

Like other have said, this is a wakeboarding forum and I don't understand while these threads keep popping up. Is there not enough porn on the internet to keep everyone busy that they need it on their sporting and wakeboarding websites too??

Wow. URlesson made a powerful point that scared people.

Not an appropriate way to prove a point, but powerful. I think eyes opened a little wider when you found out it was a women. Would you have reacted that way knowing up front?

What if this situation was for real? Greg now knows the safety of his family was compromised and changes have probably been made.

Maybe URlesson is a good person that just made a huge impact of Greg and maybe helped him in a way? I think that if URlesson was really a weirdo, she probably wouldn't have warned us.

Just a few thoughts.

"I'm not on board with UR but understand the point. People are calling him (or believe it is a her) a perv while they are the same ones posting candid pictures of other people's wives, moms, and daugthers. THAT is disgusting.
"

Yep.

And...why post it in a public forum? If it was truly from a mother that had some issues with her daughter, I'd think she'd approach Greg personally.

If it makes anyone feel better...most bulletin boards like this...log the poster's last IP address...I'm sure Dave could match it to a regular poster's usual IP pretty easily.

Dave...I'll give you $5 to know who it was! HA!

I mean Urlesson was trying to "Teach" Greg a lesson. Thats great. Nice way to "Teach" someone.
Do you teach someone to stay away from the prop on your boat by running them over?
Better go back threw all the (Find a 3rd or be a 3rd threads) and delete all the phone #'s people pass back and forth freeley so they can hook up. Wounldnt want some a-hole to get there # and "Teach" them a lesson also.

J-rod: However, it was the wrong way to go about that. A PM would have been enough. This put someone's life in the spot light intentionally and that is NOT right. If we want the spot light, then let the person do that and not a total a-hole like UR_Lesson. Totally inappropriate. Sorry, but have to disagree to an extent.

(Message edited by dabell on June 01, 2007)

J-rod...did you read after the part where "it" said "it" was a female/mother? Another poster paraphrased something along the lines of UR Lesson saying "I might sound like a d.ick..."

DOesn't sound like a woman to me...which makes it even creepier.

Dan: sorry, you can keep the money because I don't want to know. I know you are j/k..

But if you weren't: I would hope that you would advise the administrator of this website of that.

David? Of course I was kidding! That's funny!

As the founder of the original Memorial Buns thread...I a thoroughly disheartened that it raised such a controversy. HA!

I just wanted to see bootie! :P

(Message edited by depswa on June 01, 2007)

Totally agreeing that it was innapropriate. But how many poeple are talking to there families about their MYspace accounts now. If my daughter was old enough, we would be discussing it right now!

ah...you're right. I did see that dan. N?ot many girls refer to themselves as d1cks.

Creepy or not he/she probably has a point. Why would you want other men looking at your wife in the way that guys drool over these threads?? Or better yet, taking care of himself while looking at and fantasizing about your wife. People can do what they want but I can not disrespecting my wife in such a way as this to post half-nude pictures of her ANYWHERE on the internet. Maybe I value her too much.

I'm with J-Rod on this. I don't think the woman was a wierdo just misguided.

J-ROD and Eubanks last time i checked no one forces you to open these threads. If i was disgusted i wouldnt look at them. Simple as that. I think watching someone get there ass whooped is disgusting so guess what i dont log on to youtube and search street fights. In the same breath i also dont go onto the street fight bulletins and post how disgusting it is. My point is if you dont like the thread dont click on it.....

I think we are all losing sight of what UR Lesson did here.....Lets be honest if you know the most basic information of someone and they have a myspace account you can find out a lot about them, everyone knows this already! Ur Lesson took things to another level to prove a point that anyone that is smart enough to stand upright already knows! And another thing if you read the first thing that UR Lesson says something around the lines of not to be a dick, thats not a wife saing that! Everyone knows the risk of myspace and the net, even kids. Parents should talk to kids about this stuff but thats not UR Lessons job......UR Lesson you are a D-BAG! FINAL ANSWER!

Bottom line is IMO Greg did nothing wrong. He was contrubuting to a thread clearly stated. The only person out of line was UR.
I see other posters in the same exact thread with pictures of their wife's and girlfriends but becuase they didnt say who their wife/girlfriend was you dont know.

Should I be scared all the times I have posted pic's of me and my wife?

And it pisses me off at the notion that Eubanks makes that its Porn or anything but what it realy is. People Partying. Eubanks tell me your kidding. Yes some people might post some pic's of some ris-kay photo's I guess its all how your interpret them. I saw one guy's post saying somthing like "Posting pic's of your wife is kinda swinger-ish" Another Dousche bag IMO.



IP address would be a good Idea. I dont know if it would stop it but it might make people think twice.

Dan, it's all good. Just making sure brotha.....

Eubanks - We should all be as good of a person as you. I think those threads are great but it's just watching people have fun.

If a pic of a girl in a bikini makes someone want to "take care of themself," Wakeboarding is not the right sport for them as boardshorts don't offer a lot of support! HA! Maybe that's a new grab...the "Tent" grab! ha!

Grant - Please don't think I'm naive enough to just think these are to show people partying. You have to be kidding. Showing a cropped picture of some girl's a$$ where that is the only thing you see in the picture has NOTHING to do with partying. I understand the pics with a ton of boats tied up and people have a great time partying. The others that are cropped pics of a girl's chest or a$$ have no other intentions but for some guy to receive pleasure from it. Yes, there are much, much, much more severe levels of porn but to say these are just to see a party is wrong.

Rios - I don't look at those threads. This had nothing to do with me agreeing with those threads or being disgusted by the content of them. My posts were in response to the hate of this UR person by stating how I think they have a point even though their method of delivery was not the best. And how I think it is hypocritcal to bash this person about their posting of a picture of that guy's daughter when they are posting pictures themselves of others' daugther, mothers, and sisters.

Dan, that was already posted by someone and the next posting was someone tossing some cookies. Something about fashion air.... I don't know....

Again: being an IT person myself, I see why UR_Lesson was trying to make a point. It's the way she made the point that was totally out of line. By doing what he/she/it did does not give that person to the right to humiliate someone like that. Completely un-called for and should be banned from this site. This isn't just someone who stumbled onto the website. It is someone that intentionally humiliated someone.

Sorry, it just pisses me off that someone would be that low and totally violates any IT nerd (yes, that is me and any other computer person) rules.. totally!!!!!

Dan - My main point in posting was about UR and not the content in that thread. But since you brought it up, why do you look at those pictures?

Grant that was my post and im sure if you knew anything about me you back off the douche bag statements. I too have posted pics of my wife and friends up there now. My post was asking a question not making a statement. It's either one or the other its either you like people looking at your wife (doesnt bother me at all and i do feel is kinda swingerish or a form of exibitionism which imo is not a bad thing at all) or you you just wanna show pics of your girlfriend or wife to validate your catch. Its one of the two...... If the pics are not of your GF or wife and just pics of chicks on your boat then im sure the mentality is" look how i roll". Whatever the case is all are valid reasons for posting to each is own.

You can basically find out whatever you want about people on the internet these days. Stalkers are stalkers. They've been around forever. I think the internet facilitates it, but I it's not a new phenomenon. I don't think what Greg did was wrong. I'd post a pic of my wifes A$$ on here without being too worried. It is what it is. Teaching your kids to be careful of the internet is something that is a part of life now.

I think UR pointed out a valid point that it's easy to track people down and that maybe you should be careful of what you post. I personally would have handled it differently. A PM would have been in much better taste.

I also agree that deleting those posts would be a good idea. I'm not sure that they are in line with the attitude with which that thread was started.

I understand the point that UR was trying to make, but to post it all in the way that he/she did was totally uncalled for. This started out as a fun filled thread that we all enjoy. I don't care if it's your wife, kid, or friend, if it's done in good taste, enjoy it. If this sort of thing upsets you, don't open the thread. It's obvious what the thread contains, just by reading the title.
Eubanks, by posting a picture of my wifes ass means she is "Half naked" what does the chick with the star pasties mean? and why did she /he not get ostrisized as well? Believe me, my wife and I have been married for 25 years, and there is no "disrespect" in any such way. Maybe you arn't so lucky huh?
Things have changed since this whole debacle. "Myspace" accounts are now private.
My suggestion for the future: If you have anything that may publicly criticize, or may have potential damage to anyone, or their family, Start with a P.M. DONT do it on a public forum!

Great call Greg!!!!!!

Does anyone else think EUBANKS is UR Lesson?

I dont think you are but its kinda hard to tell right now considering your both in the running for

"The Ambassador of Fun" award

Hey G. Rios;
Maybe your right. Kinda scary...

dreambig, it doesn't matter who UR_Lesson is. We ALL can learn from UR_Lesson on the approach NOT to take.

We all have personal info on the internet, and by doing so we are essentially putting ourselves "at risk." I have a Facebook account (I despise myspace), I am a member on this site and themalibucrew. I have plenty of pictures of myself, my friends, my fiance and I have info such as where I live, my AOL SN, e-mail address, etc...Bottom line is, if someone wants to find me then they can.

Also, anyone with 1/2 a brain could have found that picture. While I agree it wasn't in the best taste for him to post it (or even post in general, cause what he said was just common knowledge and he thought he was something special for knowing it) there is pretty much no way to keep your picture off the internet if you are a teenager.

Even if you personally don't post pics of yourself, your friends will probably post pics with you in them. Myspace and other sites like it are very important part of being "social" for many teenagers. Not having such accounts is like not having a cell phone, car, you name it...

While I wouldn't like to have pictures of my fiance or myself posted in a public forum like this, 1/2 the blame lies with myself for having pictures of us on the internet in the first place. Don't get me wrong, Urlesson is a total d-bag. But in my opinion, people are getting over excited by this. If he would have taken a picture in front of your house, or of you car, your daughter at school, etc...basically showing that he physically close to you, then yeah I would flip ish.

I agree with Eubanks, I would not post a pic of my chick, buttttttt plllllleeeeeeaaaaasee keep posting pics

Thanks for the accusation Rios. Nice of you to bring such a thought provoking idea to the table.

Look at my profile and how long I've been on these boards. I guess you should have done some "stocking" yourself of me before posting. :-)

Greg - Maybe I'm not so lucky?? I don't follow. Maybe you mean that I don't think my wife's a$$ is worthy enough to be posted here in my opinion. Or maybe I just don't need the validation of people on the internet to give me securtiy with the woman that I chose to marry.

I didn't see anything having to do with pasties and my point was never about content as I mentioned. You know what I meant about the exaggerated "half naked" comment. I don't see many posts with pics of chicks partying in turtlenecks! haha

(Message edited by eubanks01 on June 01, 2007)

Eubanks,
Maybe you don't see chicks in turtlenecks cause this isn't a snowboard website its a a Wakeboard website. If girls in bikinis is porn to you then I feel sorry for you. What UR Lesson did was plain wrong!

Eubanks...I'm a straight single male...I like boobs and butts...pics don't get me excited though...it's like window shopping...nice to see a lamborgini, although most likely I'll never drive one!

Are you my dad btw?

Eubanks its all good bro. Your ideas and views are just that. I come from a much more openminded backround and community so things you think are wrong or disgusting to me are not. That is not to say anything about your moral fiber or character i'm sure your a standup guy just not someone i want on my boat. Live and let........

After only a year on the site I'm as disgusted as anyone at what happened. Whoever URLesson is simply went too far by researching someones daughter on myspace and THEN posting additional pics with what seem to be her friends on here. This appears to be a contradiction of his/her "lesson". Why would you further a situation that you are warning about. Hopefully everyone on here can take it as a lesson learned. I also think there are a lot of "pervs" to some extent however looking at someones personal info and seeing where they live and then switching sites to myspace and looking them up takes it to another level. I simply would have sent a pm warning that there is too much personal info so to watch out.

Eubanks: I guess its all how your seeing it. The way I see it and the way you see it seem to be 2 totaly diffrent ways. "Respect" And you seem to be generlizing. Example (I’m trying to be funny) someone posts a pick of girls. I look at it like a boat. I either like it and admire it and move on and don’t mind seeing more. But the way it is for me is I really like my boat so I don’t wish I had yours and don’t have any im-pure thoughts about other boats and only really get excited when I’m in my boat and that’s what your supposed to be like anyways so its all good the way I see it. You may see it a different way and that’s fine.

Grios: I made that comment because I thought you were saying anyone that posts picks of their wife was swinger-ish. That pissed me off because again I thought that’s not what Greg was doing or anyone else who posted pick’s of their loved ones was doing. Sorry if I threw out the d-bag comment towards you.

Just remember when people put themselves out there that doesn’t mean you should use your right to be brutally honest with them. In a thread where people are posting picks of people you don’t know who you are insulting.
I think Greg’s advice is great
"My suggestion for the future: If you have anything that may publicly criticize, or may have potential damage to anyone, or their family, Start with a P.M. DONT do it on a public forum"

Jared, that's it I telling the wife the next time I see her, that you have been looking at the bun threads on WW.

Rios - Ha! I'm sorry Bro but to hear you say the words "open minded" in one sentence and "not someone I want on my boat" in the next is awesome. Just so you know, you would be welcome on my anytime. Equating moral views with openmindedness does not make sense in this situation. If the fact that I wouldn't post a picture of my wife in a bikini or agree with the fact that you (general you) would makes me narrow minded...then maybe I don't understand the definition as you do.

Because I don't agree with posting pictures of the content on that thread doesn't mean that I would hesitate to give any of those people posting those pictures pulls behind my boat.

Shane - First you don't recognize me at the "talk to the Bill" and now you mispell my name?? I'm beginning to question our friendship! haha (Jarret)

My wife knows I only troll those threads to be the moral police! To be honest, I checked it out when I read Grant's post. I had to see what all the WW fuss was about!

Grant it's all good the more i think about it i really am a douche bag and im finally coming to terms with it...

My name is Gabe R. and I'm a Douche bag Pervo.

I'll come back and post after i rub one out to the new and improved boat bun thread. YEEEEEEEE!!!

Eubanks looking and not posting is like going to a party empty handed its just wrong. And about the boat thing i guess what i meant to say is my boat turns into a boat bun fashion shoot every sat and i wouldnt want you to be disgusted. I'm just looking out for your best interest.

To be honest, I checked it out when I read Grant's post. I had to see what all the WW fuss was about!


Better Clear your History.....

This is an entertaing thread, please keep posting!

Dude, just woke up from nap and mistyped the d and t. Yeah, you are right, I had no clue that was you. I was cleaning the debris out of eye and could not see a dayum thing.

For all you guys not getting Eubanks, him and his wife are great people. I have a feeling we don't see eye to eye on issues, but he is welcome on my boat anytime at the "talktothebill".

Can we some how incorporate God into this thread? Maybe some comments about todays youth, under age drinking, the environment (that's always a good one) and last but not least LED cupholders!

It's time to call the Internet Police!

G Rios, According to my calculations it took you 6 minutes to rub one out, I'm calling BS all the way brother, did it take you 5 minutes to make a sandwich afterwards?

G. Rios...when we ridin'? When we do...I'll bring the sandwiches! HA!

(Message edited by depswa on June 01, 2007)

Less joking more arguing.haha Don't make me pick a fight.

CAR your calcs are wrong buddy
in took me 4 minutes to make a sandwhich and 1 and 1/2 to clear my history and clean my keyboard.

Noonan whenever your up here i'll take you out fer sure you just gotta promise not to get blood flow when my wife and friends are photo shootin

There's no way that guy could fit throught my CAT5 cable!

HA! Blood Flow! That's awesome! It's cool man...I'll try to bring a bun or two! I'll def. hit you up when I head up that way! You're like #12 of people I should call though...huh J-rod? HA!

Thanks Shane! You know you're welcome on my boat anytime...except we know that on my boat all women must be dressed in turtlenecks, there is no dancing, there is no alcohol, it is mandatory to ask forgiveness to the other members of the boat if you fall more than 3 times, there is no music of any kind except for the singing of hymns from the hymnals I'll issue to each member of the boat, and all men are not allowed to speak to any other women on the boat other than their wives.

I've seen and done it all at one time so it's not like I'm shocked by anything I see or read here...I used to share all the same opinions most of you do. My perspective is different now...that's all. Like I stated again and again, I wasn't playing moral police...I was playing hypocracy police and never attacked anyone personally.

H.O.M.O
what Does that Spell
Eubanks

J/k dude your last post made me laugh and its obvious you have a sense of humor which is a good thing. So with that you get a big fat Atta Boy..... But dont get it twisted you still are not welcome on my boat bible thumpin right wing prude. LOL

its all in fun

#12 huh soooooo your saying i have a chance though? Sweet!

nice mooseknuckle

this is ridiculus
the ONLY person who had any thought of tracking someone down from these posts was urlesson!

I have seen porno and this ain't it.

If this is porno, i want my money back...oh yeah i did not pay... so it can't be porno!!!!!

Geez, so now its pornographic to go out on the boat in a bikini?

we were simply enjoying the female form, be it your daughter wife girlfriend minus the old ones and fat ones that was new and improved part

maybe urlesson is just old and fat and unhappy.

So who is gonna say it first about that picture of the internet police????

I'll man up....whats going on with his package???

URLesson is the Internet Police guy, dressed in drag at a taco stand

Man...
This whole thing reminds me of a woman that worked for me at a prior job. On my desk I had a honeymoon picture of my wife and myself on the beach in Hawaii in our bathing suits. She complained to upper management that it was "degrading to women"...

Greg,
Although I think what UR LESSON was wrong I also think that posting pics of your wife's ASS (although Nice) was probably not the smartest thing to do. And Posting your 19 year old Daughter Drinking a beer with her MOM is also not a bright idea. IF you really want a bunch of Over-Testosterone boys and 40 year old men druelling over your wife and Daughter then more power to ya but IMO that is pretty creepy as well!!
As a father of 3 ( 2 girls) The last thing I want is to have boys checking out my Daughter half naked on a wakebaording website!!!!

You are just putting a Bullseye on her!!!!!!!!!!

So E how did you find out she was 19?

Greg said his wife was 47 and he also said she was 28 when he had his daughter.
DO THE MATH!!!!!

Eric - I agree completely. Good point.

UR was guilty of the exact thing she was "trying to warn us about."

To me that makes absolutely no sense...??? WTF

It is like walking into my house because it is always unlocked, and stealing my crappy TV to show me that I should lock my door??

Of course we should all be careful, but really come on, was UR Really trying to warn us, or was she trying to show off and draw attention to herself(himself)??

It was unnecessary and rude. I don't think that what Greg did was wrong in any way. I Love his wife's Ass, I am happy for him! His family is beautiful, and that is something to be very proud of. What is wrong with any of that?

I think UR has some serious issues, and needs a reality check.

So for the record, here is my wife, my girls, my niece, and our best friend.. This pics for you Greg....

And there is no need to go 'searching' for my info UR LESSON, it is all right there in my profile. Including my profession.... No worries.

Sean (Sorry, but I am f-ing pissed)

kirk...sounds totally corporate
sean...right-on
greg...corona should be paying your wife to advertise on her...kinda reminds of the corona commercials...

(Message edited by bftskir on June 01, 2007)

she has to be an olympic athlete of some sort right?