Well i can laugh now the fight is over....The big battle finally happened on the water. She goes to make the turn and bam....instead of taking the same line back she goes about about 50 yards to the left where all our rollers are. I let go of the rope and get on the boat without saying anything.....she asks if she "turned wrong or something?" I calmly say "when we turn we just need to go back through our previous line...no big deal i was tired anyway" then it hits "well i just won't pull you anymore". So big fight and it ends with me stating she just needs to pay attention to the driving and not the people on the boat which she does all the time.....So about 20 minutes later she is driving while towing the kids, i am on the swim deck yelling directions to them and boom she doesn't see a bouy hits a hazard at lake powell and beaches the boat on rock in the middle of the lake. So later that night she comes up to me crying and asks me to explain how to drive better.....The next day perfect driving! wahoo something bad to something good now she truly is the perfect wife!!