Am I bored to wakeboard?

My buddies seem to be cutting back on boarding. No one is going out during the week anymore. I have to trailer my boat to the local spot...but don't have the ambition to get it out bring it back and put it away when done. I should also mention..wife is going to school full time and I am basically a single dad for a while until she is done. So kids plus trailering boat...equals difficult. Weekends have been shot with weddings...reunions..etc. etc. So have I lost it? Should I be buggin the friends to get off their butts? I took my kids with me last year, no problems. I think they are reserved because of gas prices over 4. But I always paid good..so I don't see that as the issue. Anyone else experience this recently?