Kitchen Makeover on the cheap

Okay guys... looking for some general thoughts/ideas for how to update our kitchen. We just bought a new house and I think the kitchen needs some attention. Problem is, I've basically got no cash to spend.

I'm thinking the obvious first step is to paint or refinish the cabinets and other wood surfaces. That's where I'm looking for some input. What do you guys think? Paint? Stain? Any and all ideas welcome. And I'm not the handiest guy in the world, but I'll be doing the work myself, so any advice on process is welcome too.

Counter tops is also on the list, but that's gonna have to wait... I KNOW that's gonna cost an arm and a leg.

We did already replace the fridge with stainless to match the other appliances, and I'm looking into a stainless Microwave to mount over the range, which will help us ditch the dated hood vent.

Thanks in advance for helping out!