It almost sounds like he is protecting his "homies", who you know would flip on a dime if they were in his shoes.
Either way, he's an effing moron. $40 million dollars on the table, "fiancée", and 8 month old kid at home. That seems like the right time to be out clubbing with your "boys". Take the guy outa the "ghetto", but can't take the "ghetto" outa the guy.