3 way switch wiring diagram help
 

I have had a very difficult time finding a wiring diagram for adding my tower light switches. This switch will actually be controlling a relay (then the relay will turn on the lights). I plan on using two of these switches - one for the front two lights and another for the rear two lights otherwise I wouldn't be able to have the choice of just having the front lights on, rear lights on, or both front and rear lights on at the same time. I know how to wire the relay just don't know how to wire these switches. Can someone please help me out? Thanks. (I did try to search this topic all over the web but couldn't find what I needed).

Doble check with a VOM but as i see it:
7 is ground to illumintate the switch face.
2 is power in, fused.
1 gets power when the bottom (rear) of the swicth is pressed.
3&6 get power when the top (front) of the swcith is pressed.

Thank you baitkiller. I will try that later today.